It is always projects that turn relationships sour. Be it lecturers or really good friends.
If there wasn't any from the beginning, poly life would be much enjoyable right?

Hate today! :(

Concept i learnt in psychology

Humans mould themselves to have more socially acceptable behaviour. If this is true, then how can there be people who are in their true self? This is like, the more others think that you are fun & nice to be with, the more they will accept and love you in the way you behave.

Sometimes, I feel that it's just so tiring to be a girl.

HELLO! As you can see, that's me on the left with a very qian da face. Waiting for my psychology class to start. So I decided to post photos of events I had during my last holiday! and i'm disappointed with my results. random.



To begin with, the following events were organized after many many days of planning just for my LING LING ! I'm glad everyone enjoyed :D She's one year older now although she don't look like one.



1 sebas is here

2. sebas very shuai

3. pin xuan wants ton



ahh. As you can see, sebastian was here to disturb just now -.- Nevermind. 16Dec was my busiest day among the rest. Morning went to buy materials, afternoon went to meet ah pin, rena and jojo at Compasspoint to make her bigbig card & nearly got hit by balls, evening went to meet my baobei, alvin and jasmine at Changi to decorate our own cards. At night rushed back to meet lifang and sijia, and we went to surprise ling outside her house.





Lifang and sijia stayed over at my place for the night. They bought alcohol D: Just a small bottle :) Stayed up till 4plus to make card for ling. So dead by then. Slept, and woke up early in the morning to attend something. After that went to meet my bii, wenting and qiuhong for kbox!





Next day, wanted to give her a surprise. It was nearly a success LOR! :(

Met up with my baobei and alvin to Pitstop. We were HIGH over there! I love the Chocolate Eclair. After that, liling and jasmine surprised her before we were going back. Huiyee came after her work for some photo taking. Initial plan was to go Hawparvilla, but cancelled it. :(





At night, told baobei they all we had to go off early cos' I got family dinner. Ended up, it was to give ling another surprise. This time, with WATERGUNS, along with ah pin, rena and jojo. Ah pin shot me once she saw me :( BAD HOR. Took lots of photos at her void deck. The plan failed in surprising her, cos' she heard our laughter from top. But she didn't expect the water guns. We were wet especially her, and so was the floor.





This was quite a last minute plan, and I'm glad that most of my sec school clique people turned up. Though it was just a short dinner, but it's good. At night, rest went off leaving ling, me and darryl. Had some heart to heart talk at Vivo rooftop. I love it! :)





Next day, Christmas! Went for dinner with my class girls. We really ordered a variety! Went to qiuhong and my workplace there for a drink. Ordered a bottle of Martell. Played till damn high there and our punishment to lose was to drink, we were so noisy! Exchanged gifts. I got lifang's one, sijia got mine. :D

I LOVE GIRLS NIGHT OUT!
Didn't manage to finish the bottle. Shall go back another time!


Next few days were just rushing of projects. Until someday where we had 2e2 gathering. It's cool seeing them change tremendously. There was another surprise planned, which was to celebrate the twins belated birthday at Fish&Co.! They were super malu :x

I really don't know about it eh. I'm not so bad =P


Few days before the new year, went night cycling with my baobei, huiyee, jasmine & ling. I seldom can stay out for the whole night! My bike was seriously a spoiler. They had to take turns riding my bike on the way back :( I love night life! I love the feeling of night cycling! The period where the road is dim and clear of vehicles, the feeling of the wind brushing across my cheeks, a moment when you're in control of everything. Especially when I'm with special people.


And last but not least, countdown for 2010 was spent with my classmates!
Had dinner and headed to Marina see fireworks. It was splendid. I still remember the moment. :) It's much longer than NDP, much more wow-factor too.

Fireworks is amazing. It leaves a deep impression in many people, and remember who they spent the time with.

Some left, leaving the 6 of us. Bought drink and sat around to crap. We wished we didn't buy the movie tickets cos' the sharing is memorable. When time was up, went to watch Avatar3D at PS, 3.45am. Gosh, we fell asleep! Except senrong bah. The morning view at PS is beautful. Sun rose, and we went for breakfast at Kopitiam which we hunted for a long time. Home Sweet Home. :)

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup.There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up?

It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights with your spouse. We are people, not programmed devices........


Do You Agree?
-MIA-